Ready, Set… Lust! How to Prepare a Night for Super Sex
- Ronald Janssen
- Aug 28
- 2 min read
Great sex doesn’t start in the bedroom — it starts in the build-up. The secret isn’t just technique or spontaneity, but the art of anticipation. By intentionally creating an evening focused on your connection, you set the stage for passion that feels deeper, hotter, and longer-lasting.
Why Preparation Changes Everything
Preparation isn’t a mood killer — it’s a desire booster.
It helps your mind switch from stress to intimacy.
It builds anticipation, making every touch feel more intense.
It creates focus: no distractions, no phones — just the two of you.
Think of it as a ritual that heightens connection and makes your body more receptive to pleasure.
The Lust Lab Challenge: A Night for Super Sex
Ready to put this into practice? Here’s your step-by-step challenge:
Step 1: Set the scene
Choose a space where you won’t be disturbed.
Dim the lights, light candles, or use warm lamps.
Create a playlist that slowly builds from soft to fiery.
Step 2: Wake the body
Start with a shared shower or bath.
Use a scented oil or gel that excites your senses.
Towel each other off and begin a slow, playful massage (skip the “forbidden zones” for now).
Step 3: Anticipation & tease
Agree: at least 20 minutes of forbidden zones. Only kisses, touches, whispers.
Whisper one desire or fantasy you want to explore tonight — but don’t do it yet.
Step 4: The climax
Let foreplay build until you can’t hold back anymore.
Then go all in — with only one rule: listen to each other’s reactions.
👉 Bonus idea: Add a blindfold, an ice cube, or a toy to turn up the intensity.
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